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Are You A Stabber or A Rewarder? Make Up Your Mind……..

Posted on: July 12, 2010

An undecided individual is more dangerous than a criminal” A criminal, you already know their intent, they want to rob you or tie you up and carry away your life belongings and sometimes, they may feel the need to stab you every 5 minutes, just to make sure you understand their intentions very very clearly!

On the other hand an undecided person, no way! They may serve you candy while stabbing you simultaneously! Mixed signals is their norm, and as much as they may not intend to play games or convey mixed signals, that is exactly what they deliver with their indecision. They are volatile and are easily swayed! Most people can pick up on indecisive individuals by their actions!

As an employer,employee or a job seeker or maybe even an unemployed person perhaps even a person dating and testing the waters, the first thing you must do though is take a stand internally! Once you take a stand, the clarity and surety of your message is received loud and clear! Their can be no mixed messages! You are very clear about your desire for the job or the challenge at hand or the maybe even the date you seek! There are no mixed messages! There are no “BUT’S “, “IF’s”, “IF THENS”or “ELSE’S”……..there is only “WHEN” and “AFTER”

Remember indecision to most people is viewed as lack of integrity! Saying what you mean and meaning what you say!

Have a “Take a stand” Day!

Lee Kariuki

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